Nothing in the middle

4 min readJan 10, 2023

“You are the only problem you will ever have and you are the only solution. Change is inevitable, personal growth is always a personal decision.” — Bob Proctor

“Nothing in the middle”

“Create or disintegrate. You’re either growing or dying.” It always boils down to one or the other. We’re either moving upwards, or we’re falling downwards.” — Destiny S. Harris

“Nothing in the middle”

“There are no secrets to success: don’t waste time looking for them. Success is the result of perfection, hard work, learning from failure, loyalty to those for whom you work, and persistence.” — Colin Powell

Bob Proctor was an amazing individual and his legacy will outlast many that have come and gone in the personal development field.

He was a no nonsense guy that understood that we either create or disintegrate. If we choose to create, our results will astound us.

Are results in control of you or vice versa?

The Law of Gender states that everything has a gestation period or an incubation period. Every thought is a seed planted into the universe. It takes time to cultivate and grow. Even when you can’t see the physical form, know that it is being manifested.

Understanding the Law of Gender enables you to control your behavior by not getting emotionally involved with ideas that do not serve you. As a result, you no longer compete but instead you create.

The following statement contravenes most conventional business practice. When a business competes, it acknowledges the fact that there isn’t enough in the marketplace. Therefore, they will attempt to do whatever it takes in order to snatch their piece of the pie.

There is enough for everyone but how many get this?

We create our own circumstances by not relinquishing our personal creative power. When results are in control of you, you initiate a self-doom fulfilling cycle where present circumstances and results are dominating your thoughts.

When you are in control of results, you initiate a winning cycle where present circumstances and results do not dominate your thoughts.

It’s not rocket science.

We will either create or disintegrate.

There is nothing in the middle.

You have a choice.

Exercise this choice on a consistent basis and fewer people on your team will be dropping the ball.

There is nothing in the middle.

Carpe Momentum.

Yours in success,

Franco Cianflone


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FRANCO CIANFLONE B.Sc. Ed. M. Ed. LSC CS MENTAL TOUGHNESS FOR LIFE Certified Corporate Trainer, Educator, Business Consultant, Author & Entrepreneur. Franco Cianflone is a graduate of the internationally acclaimed Bill Gove Speech Workshop with a Corporate Speaker designation.

His extensive corporate training includes Bob Proctor, Paul Martinelli, and training seminars/sessions with Steve Siebold, John Maxwell, Les Brown, Tony Robbins, Mark Victor Hansen, and many others. He is the author of sixteen books to date and co-founder of Mini Bytes For The Brain.

Fifty years of Education and Business leadership compliments his mission to transform and catapult the results of individuals everywhere on the globe as far as Australia. His life mantra is, ”Others will be looking at the fire while you are walking through the fire towards your victory and success.”


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